5 Things Women do that push men Away

There are some specific things women do to push their guy away. The list is not just based on experience, but feedback received from other men.

1. Wanting to change your man

Many women get in a relationship thinking they can change the man. If a man makes a change for a relationship, the benefit must outweigh the consequences of that change. Don’t go into the relationship hoping to change your man, instead, because you understand and you are willing to accommodate his fault.

Change is possible! Change is constant! Change is difficult!

2. Sex on the First Date

If a woman offers sex on the first date, any man won’t probably reject because men are feeble. If that man is not a play boy, he will definitely think you irresponsible. A woman who can’t walk away with a goodnight kiss and leave the man guessing appeals much more to men.

3. Talking Things to Death 

Women need to think of love as "quiet." In other words, it’s what you do when no one is looking, how you find their hand when things are bad and tell them it’s okay. If you hear “I love you” constantly it loses its value. “Love is the result of the events in our lives, not the result of talking about the idea of it”. 

4. Disloyalty 

Loyalty is everything; it is the currency of our lives. When women are disloyal to other women (probably their close friends), it tells the man they will be disloyal to them, too. 

5. A Failure to Let a Lion be a Lion

In the same way that a women wants to feel taken care of and protected, a man wants to know he’s the one that made her feel that way. With a look or word, you can empower us men.

Don't forget why your man fell for you. Lovers seem to stop doing the little things they did at the beginning of a relationship that made it fun. Think back and try doing some of those little things you "used" to do for him.

This in some case is also applicable to men.